If you?re interested in finding a mail order bride then one skill you?ll need to learn is how to maintain a long distance relationship. Here are ten tips for maintaining that difficult long term relationship.
- The first tip when maintaining a long distance relationship with a foreign lady is to keep your promises. If you tell her you?re going to visit her, then make sure you do. Foreign dating sites are full of men who aren?t serious about finding a foreign bride. They?ll chat to ladies, promise all kinds of things, but never visit them. So be realistic with what you tell her. There are so many cheaters on dating site that an honest man is held in high regard.
- Take plenty of photos. Even if you just visit the supermarket, take a couple of photos so you can send them to your lady. If your lady has a digital camera then tell her to do the same. It can be reassurring to see that your partner is going about their every day life. You?ll also get to learn more about them. Remember to take plenty of photos if you do anything special.
- Weekends can be hard for your lady. If your lady doesn?t work then make a special effort to contact her at weekends.
- Remember calendar dates that are important to your loved one. For example, if you?re dating a Chinese lady, then remember when Chinese valentine?s day is.
- No news is not necessarily bad news! When it comes to a long distance relationship don?t panic if you don?t hear from your lady for a day or two. Internet connections aren?t always good in some parts of the world. Ladies also live their own lives, and they sometimes have difficult issues to deal with back home. Asian ladies in particular are very family orientated. If there?s a family crisis then you?ll invariably have to take a back seat while it?s sorted out.
- Assuming there are no problems, then try to keep in touch every day. Even if it?s just a quick SMS phone message, at least you let your partner know you?re OK.
- Set goals to look forward to. If you?re dating an Asian or Russian lady then let her know when you?ll visit again, which will give her something to look forward to.
- If you?re no longer interested in a lady, then tell her. I know this can be hard, but far better she know the truth than have her live in false hope.
- Send small gifts to your partner (but don?t send money). Ladies love to receive gifts in the mail. If you send something, then don?t send anything valuable (and again, don?t send money!). Good gifts to send are stuffed animals and other cheap sentimental stuff. Chocolates are also good. They?re light to post, and a lady can take them into her work or share them with their family. Asian women in particular love chocolate, especially boxes that they can share with their friends. By the way, although many dating sites like Chnlove and Asian Beauties have gift services, it?s far better (and cheaper!) to send your own gifts.
- Finally don?t get caught in the trap of sending a lady money. If you?re dating a foreign lady then you should only consider supporting her and her family after marriage, not before. Send money to a woman that you?re not married to and you?ll often fall into the trap of sending ever larger amounts. Don?t think it won?t happen to you ? love makes us do things we wouldn?t otherwise consider. The other problem with sending money is that once a girl discovers that she can live in her own country and get money by not working, then she?ll be on those dating sites looking for 3 or 4 more guys to send her money. Personally I don?t know of any relationship that?s been successful when the man has been sending money to his foreign girlfriend or fiance.
So if you follow these tips then you?ll hopefully go on to maintain a long distance relationship, no matter how far away your loved on is from you.
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